🇺🇸 REFLECTING ABOUT PAST LOVERS: The Cute Guys Never Get the Girl

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Lately, I’ve been working hard to finish some of my unfinished book projects. As I delved into one of the most unforgettable moments of my life – the night I met the love of my life, Maitê Thomaz – I was transported back in time. Writing about that fateful evening brought back a flood of memories and reminded me of the incredible emotions that come with falling in love.

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Despite the pain of lost love, I am grateful for the lessons I’ve learned and the person I’ve become because of that experience. In this article, I reflect on what it truly means to find and lose true love, and invite you to come along with me as I explore the twists and turns of my personal journey.

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As I was saying, the moment I laid eyes on Maitê, I knew deep down that she would break my heart. But I couldn’t resist the instant rush of emotion that sent shivers up my spine when she greeted me with a simple hello. The memory of that unforgettable night still lingers with me, and I can’t help but think about how it changed my life forever.

And to be honest, I still love her – that’s probably the reason why I haven’t been dating lately. But I do know that if she were to come back, I would refuse to re-start our “situationship”, if you know what I mean.


My past relationships have taught me that I have a complex relationship with my emotions. On the one hand, I feel this intense flame of love burning in my chest, and I want nothing more than to share that passion with someone else. But on the other hand, I have a tendency to be cold and selfish, thinking that nobody could ever be good enough to get me out of my comfort zone.

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My past relationships have taught me a lot about myself and my emotions. As I mentioned earlier, the memory of Maitê still lingers with me, and it’s hard not to think about what could have been.

I don’t regret focusing on my professional career – to pursue a more stable career, I started working in marketing as a content creator for businesses. However, my true passion has always been writing and I aspire to tell my personal romance stories based on my own experiences, to touch people’s hearts and help them through tough times.


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This blog marks a fresh start for me, and I am excited to focus solely on this platform for now. I believe that people who enjoy reading are not necessarily the same audience who spend their time watching unrelated videos on social media platforms like Tiktok. As a writer, I have found that blogging is the best way for me to share my personal experiences and connect with the audience I am passionate about. By sharing my past relationship experiences, I hope to help others going through similar situations. If you enjoyed reading this, please spread the word and help me grow my dream!

Thank you for checking out my blog! Stay tuned for more personal stories and insights into my journey as a writer. Don’t miss out on the next post – be sure to stay tuned and share with your friends who love a good read! Kai is OUT!

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